Engagement Ring Shopping for Couples: Tips for Making the Moment Memorable
7 November 2025 • 5 min read
A New Tradition in the Making
Forget the old rules, more and more couples are choosing to shop for engagement rings together. And honestly, we’re here for it. Today’s love stories look different, and the way you choose your ring should too. That’s exactly why a modern engagement ring guide matters: it helps you navigate the process with confidence, clarity and zero guesswork.
Shopping as a team doesn’t ruin the romance. In fact, it makes the entire journey even more meaningful. When you choose the ring together, you’re creating a shared memory, shaping a symbol of your commitment, and making decisions that reflect who you are as a couple, your style, your values, and your future.
Whether you’re starting from scratch, narrowing down your favourite styles, or simply wanting to understand the basics before you walk into a showroom, this engagement ring guide will walk you through it all. From understanding diamond shapes and settings to budgeting, metals, lab-grown options and personalisation, you’ll discover how enjoyable (and stress-free) this milestone can be.
Let’s explore how engagement ring shopping as a couple can be fun, intentional and something you’ll remember forever, not just the proposal, but the entire journey leading up to it.
Why Couples Are Choosing to Shop Together
There are a few reasons why this trend is taking off:
You both want to be involved in the decision
The ring is a big investment — and a lifelong one
You value transparency and collaboration
You want to avoid sizing or style surprises
Sound familiar? Then shopping together might be your perfect next step.
Tip 1: Start With a Conversation, Not a Carat
Before booking a boutique appointment, sit down and talk openly about:
Budget expectations
Ring styles or metals you like
Whether you’re open to lab-grown diamonds or only want natural
Timeline (Are you in a rush? Planning ahead?)
This will help you approach shopping with clarity — and less stress.
Tip 2: Explore Online Before Going In-Store
Use Pinterest, Instagram, or your favourite jeweller’s website (hi, that’s us!) to browse:
Metal types (white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, platinum)
Inspiration for custom details or engraving
This makes in-store visits more focused and fun, rather than overwhelming.
Tip 3: Book a Private Appointment for a Personalised Experience
At Ernesto Buono Fine Jewellery, we offer private, by-appointment experiences so you can explore ring options in a relaxed, no-pressure setting.
You’ll sit down with our experts and even peek behind the scenes at how our rings are crafted. Whether you’ve got a Pinterest folder or absolutely no clue — we’re here to guide you.
Tip 4: Bring a Symbolic Touch
Even if you’re shopping together, you can still keep the final ring — or proposal — a surprise. Some ideas:
One partner picks the stone, the other the setting
Choose the ring together but keep the engraving secret
Design it together, but the final presentation is still a surprise
This way, you both stay involved, but there’s still an element of magic when the time comes.
Tip 5: Don’t Let Budget Kill the Mood
Money talks can feel a little awkward at first, but they don’t have to be.
Work together to set a comfortable budget and remember, love isn’t measured in carats. Many couples are now choosing meaningful, ethical options like lab-grown diamonds that look stunning and align with shared values, all without breaking the bank.
Tip 6: Consider Customising Your Ring Together
Designing a bespoke ring as a couple is a bonding experience like no other. You’ll choose:
The diamond shape
The setting
The metal
Any personal touches (like hidden gems or engraving)
At Ernesto Buono, you’ll work directly with our master jeweller to create a piece that tells your love story — your way.
Tip 7: Make It a Day to Remember
Turn your ring shopping into a proper date. Book a long lunch, sip champagne after your appointment, or explore Sydney’s best spots together.
Why not document the day with a few photos or Insta stories? (Tag us @ernestobuonofinejewellery — we love seeing these moments!)
What Couples Love Most About Shopping Together
Less Pressure – You’re in it together
More Romance – Sharing the journey = deeper connection
Fewer Mistakes – No awkward re-sizing or returns
More Meaning – You build the memory together, not just the ring
At Ernesto Buono, Every Couple Is Different — and That’s the Point
Whether you’re romantic traditionalists or modern collaborators, Ernesto Buono Fine Jewellery celebrates your unique approach. Our boutique offers both ready-to-wear collections and bespoke custom designs, all crafted with love in Sydney.
Shopping for your engagement ring together doesn’t make it less romantic — it makes it more you. Whether you’re side-by-side at the jewellery counter or building something custom from scratch, doing it together means your love is at the centre of it all.
So go ahead — start the journey, hand in hand.
FAQs About Engagement Ring Shopping for Couples
1. Does shopping together ruin the proposal surprise?
Not at all! Many couples shop together but keep the final design or moment a surprise.
2. Is it normal to shop for rings as a couple?
Absolutely. It’s becoming increasingly popular — especially with modern couples who value shared decisions.
3. What if we have different style preferences?
A custom ring allows you to blend styles and personalise your piece so both of you feel connected to it.
4. How much should we budget as a couple?
Most couples spend based on their values and lifestyle. It’s about what’s meaningful, not a fixed number.
5. Can we still shop online first?
Yes! Many couples browse online before visiting us in-store. It’s a great way to get inspired and come prepared.
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Ernesto Buono
Ernesto Buono is an Italian‑trained master jeweller and the founder of Ernesto Buono Fine Jewellery, a bespoke jewellery atelier based in Parramatta, New South Wales. He discovered his passion for jewellery making at age 17, honed his craft at Italy’s Accademia delle Belle Arti and later at the Enmore Design Centre TAFE in Sydney, and has spent over two decades creating custom engagement rings, wedding bands and fine jewellery that blend traditional craftsmanship with modern design.
Ernesto Buono Fine Jewellery
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