Engagement Ring Etiquette – Post proposal

8 April 2022 • 4 min read

Has your partner just popped the question? Congratulations and welcome to post-proposal bliss. A lengthy period where this exciting milestone overjoys you and your partner, you take an extended trip on cloud nine.

During this period and even after, you’ll be sure to gush about the cherished moment in your relationship with your friends and family. But to maintain the importance of this moment, there are a few general do’s and don’ts to keep in mind so you don’t spoil the excitement from this particular time.

To see the recommended etiquette for after the proposal has happened, have a read below.

Share the proposal details

When people ask about your proposal, go crazy with details! It is an exciting memory, and it is normal to want to share your magical moment. Plus, many people like to know how your partner asked the all-important question.

Like a fairy tale, many people love to hear the romantic story behind your engagement. Unless it is a super personal moment you want to keep close, it is usually a safe topic to detail. You can always skip certain information if you deem them too confidential to share!

Don’t mention the price

The saying goes there is a time and place – and when it comes to discussing the price of your ring, this is not a time to share! No one should ask you the price of your ring, but in the instance they do, avoid telling the price. Often, you won’t know the cost of your engagement ring, but if you do, keep the final price tag to yourself!

You don’t want to diminish the proposal or the engagement ring and some may judge whether it lives up to their standards. Plus, the value of your ring isn’t anyone else’s business. Additionally, for security purposes, it is always better to keep it on the down-low.

Praise the ring

Once your friends and family see the ring, keep your responses regarding the ring positive, especially if your partner picked it! You want to keep up the hype and keep the magic of your proposal, so don’t be afraid to let people know you love your ring.

Engagement rings are an investment, making it a lot of pressure, so praising their efforts lets people know you appreciate your partner. It will also give your partner reassurance. And don’t be afraid to give your partner personal props for choosing the ring if they picked it themselves.

Don’t highlight the carat weight

Just like the price of the ring, telling the carat weight of your diamond is also a no-no unless you are incredibly close with someone. The carat weight of a diamond can be very telling and can hint at a price figure in terms of diamond engagement rings.

Plus, it may not be the carat you wanted, so straying away from that detail will allow you to avoid any questions. On the other hand, if you want to brag about the impressive weight, try not to spill too much, as it may sound valuable and appealing to wondering hands.

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Now that you know what is relevant to discuss and what details should be avoided in your proposal, enjoy this blissful period with your beloved partner!

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